Why should a woman avenge her boyfriend by death?
Revenge is endless in the history of human development.
Some have become irritable grieving stories, some have become a relishing history of people, and some have become a symbol of the human soul.
Shakespeare’s “Hamlet” is a typical example of revenge, but Lao Sha connects the whole story through a beautiful love complex, giving others a kind of inner reflection.
”I want to avenge him, even if I lose my life, I want him to stop hurting other women.
“A friend told me categorically.
It seems that there is no love in her heart except hatred.
A special function in Chinese culture is the ability to unite the two extreme parties.
Regarding hatred, we often say “the depth of love, the cut of hate.”
Don’t bind yourself, but when love has gradually turned into “hatred”, the essence of the human heart develops.
Just as we retaliate against others, this essentially binds us to those who need revenge.
The mystery is the so-called “We are scolded by those with low quality.
“I remember reading a book about Lin Huiyin’s autobiography.
At that time, Lin Huiyin went to the mountain village to hide, because her inner cultural needs could not be met, and her living conditions were very difficult. She also often quarreled with her aunt for small matters.
However, when she returned to the city, she discovered that she was at the same level as her aunt at that time because she lacked a “higher perspective.”
Well, for a woman who wants to get revenge on a man, if she thinks about some issues of her own storage for a tangled matter, she will put herself on the same level as a man.
A wise man who enters the maze of thought is a person who can correct his position at any time.
If you think about something that cannot be solved by itself, think about it.
Then people are embedded in the “ideological alley” of their own design, and it will not be as easy as they think to jump out.
In this way, like the idealism in the philosophical world, you can never escape the stagger you set.
A good friend of mine, kind, beautiful and smart.
She is a successful woman in that county and has been favored by many single men because she has been single.
However, her imprisoned heart was pried open by a doctor and she was out of control.
Recently, she cried to me and said, “He is a beast. He tried to seduce me by all means. Now I don’t want to do anything. I want to get revenge on him except death.
“Actually, she was the same, and surrounded the maze of thought she set.
One question women should think about is: “love setting.”
Human beings have a fatal weakness and they always like to think of things for the better.
Just like a woman who just got involved in love, she always yearns for her long-lasting love and hopes that her future will be happy and sweet.
This initial formation will make women unable to extricate themselves into the “infinite reverie”.
Love is an objective reality, and it is always objective.
Love can’t go on by one step in accordance with the line originally set by him.
So when love conflicts, do we really need to blame ourselves and regret it?
Personal feelings are different, and I am more willing to see that women in the world can rationally view all this.
“Love is only part of life, it is not the whole life.
“Because, until love is gone, life has to continue, and the sun still rises as usual.
There is a great difference between the love in reality and the love in ideal. Therefore, a woman should not give much meaning to love at the beginning.
However, the living environment gives humans a desire and dependence on love, and many girls are more willing to closely associate love with happiness.
Think that love is the supreme pursuit of life.
But is it true?It is worth our deep doubt.
For those women who have been hurt by love, the most important thing to do is to erase the past and find themselves back.
Many people say, “I want to forget the past, but I can’t.
“For many people, it is difficult to forget the past. The main reason is that” those people are willing to give up the past.
“If you are not willing to give up, how can you forget it?
People often say, “People who live in the past are painful; those who live in the future are illusory; those who live in the present are real.
“So why don’t we grasp every minute that sneaks away from us?”
The past is just the past. What can it tell?
What can it represent?
What can prove?
If the past can tell everything, then everyone should disappear.
Because one cannot go smoothly and cannot be perfect.
Learn to forget and learn to remember.
Selectively stay beautiful and reject remorse.
People should be happier in remembering the past, leaving a time to feel good about themselves.
I recommend you to taste the “Titanic” again. Ross, under Jack’s instructions, has a happy life.
If she was unhappy because of Jack’s death, she would be alone.
So would Jack in heaven be willing?
There are two levels of meaning here: first, love does not represent possession, and you should hope that the person you love is happy forever;